Phone Sex 101
The phonesex industry has changed quite a bit with the advent of the web. There are more independent workers than ever before, using methods like PayPal to accept payment for their services. We do have a section for phonesex websites , though keep in mind the review is of the site and info provided, not of the service itself. Here are a few suggestions if you’re thinking about making a call:
Beware “free phonesex” and “long distance charges only” type advertisements. I probably don’t need to tell you that these services are not truly free. While sometimes they may look like a U.S. area code, it works like this: the company in question has an account with a foreign phone company. They bill you who knows how much per minute, you won’t know until you see it on your phone bill, and the foreign phone company gives the phonesex company a kickback per minute. We’ve heard of rates up to $6 a minute in some cases. If you’re unsure of where you are calling you can look up the area code here. Chances are you’re calling the Cayman Islands, Bermuda, Guam, or any number of other small places.
Are you looking for something specific? If you want to talk about a particular fetish or activity that is a bit outside the mainstream, chances are you can find someone to talk to you. Read the pages to see what each provider likes to do. If you’re calling a big service with a switchboard operator, be as specific as you can.
Don’t be shy! Ok, say you want to talk about something you find taboo. It gets you hot, but you’re a little embarrassed about it. All I can say is GET OVER IT! You’re paying by the minute here, and trust me the people who do this for a living have heard everything. My first experience ever in the adult industry was as a phonesex operator (it’s a long story, but that’s how this website came to be) and I know how difficult it was at times to drag out of a caller just what they wanted to talk about. You’re not going to be judged and ridiculed here (well, unless that is what you’re into and calling for) so take a deep breath and spill it. You’ll have a far more enjoyable experience.
It’s fantasy, the rules are different. A common misconception is that things which are illegal to DO are also illegal to talk about or write about. Not true, it’s that little thing called free speech. While some companies do shy away from things like bestiality or incest fantasies, there are those who do them. Be sure to ask ahead of time if that is your thing.
Do you want something more personal? If you want to talk to the same girl or guy every time, try looking for either an independent provider or a sort of co-op instead. The big companies with switchboards are often unwilling to take requests for a specific person, so if you think you’re looking for an ongoing thing keep that in mind.
