Q: I went on a date with a girl and later that night I texted her to tell her I had a lot of fun. She texted me back and said that the sex was great, but she’s not interested in seeing me again. Is she lying about the sex? 

It’s difficult to know whether or not she was telling the truth. What’s important to understand is that it doesn’t matter. Whether she’s telling the truth or not, you’ll never know.  In casual sex, your partner may be more willing to fudge the truth because they know they’ll never see you again. That could be the situation with this girl. She had a so-so time but she’d rather say it was a-okay and cut contact after that first experience. Maybe your techniques weren’t her favorite, maybe your chemistry wasn’t super great. She’s throwing you a solid by not crushing your self-esteem. Because you know what? Even if the sex totally sucked for her, it might not be your fault. Why bum you out for nothing?

In committed relationships or sexual relationships where both partners are interested in seeing each other over time, communication is extra important. You need to tell the truth because that sets the stage for how well you’ll grow together over time. The more you tell your partner, the better he gets at knowing what you like, and vice versa.

In this situation, it’s a low risk lie. She won’t see you again so it doesn’t matter.

Of course, it is better to just be open and honest IN THE MOMENT because if you’re going into casual sex to have fun, why put up with a half-assed partner?

So reader, calm your nerves, let it go, and look forward to whatever comes next.

1When you are dating, you will experience a sudden flood of words of wisdom and advice regarding dating. Everyone will give their dating advice to you, ranging from your aunt to your mum. They will tell you what things you must say or how you must behave.

Although, they may think that they know everything about dating, they could in fact be harming your relationships and dating scene, rather than doing any good. Therefore, it is best to consider whatever they say and then do whatever it feels right to you. Have a look at these 3 Latin dating advices that you must definitely ignore.

1. DO NOT ACCEPT LAST MINUTE INVITE TO A DATE

Your friends would have advised you that you should not accept last minute invite to a date, because it indicates to the other person that you are easily available and easy to get. However, this is a wrong advice.

Rather, you should do what you feel is right. If you feel that you should accept the invitation and go on the date, then you should do the same. And, if you are busy somewhere or do not feel like going, then you should not go.

Just because your friend has advised you not to accept last minute date invites is not a good enough reason to cancel your date. After all, if you do not go, you can miss out on a potentially memorable date. Just go for it and do not over-analyze the situation.

2. DO NOT CALL FOR 3 DAYS

Many parents or friends advise that you should not call your date until 72 hours have lapsed. However, this is a wrong advice that has no relevance now. Today, people do not wait for 3 days to contact their date, as evidenced by a survey carried out by LoveGeist that indicates that 78 per cent of men reach contact their date before 72 hours.

If you really enjoyed the date and are interested in the other person, then you should definitely call them up or text them telling the same that you enjoyed the date. If the other person also feels the same, that is, if they also enjoyed the date and are interested in you, then they will definitely reply to your message.

3. DO NOT ORDER A LARGE MEAL

A lot of times people advice that you should not order a large meal, when you are on a date. They say that you should know how to behave and what to eat on a date. Nevertheless, you should not listen to their advice and order whatever you feel like eating.

Just like you should not disclose everything about yourself on your first date, similarly you must not act differently. You must be yourself. After all, your date should like you as you are and not the fake you.

Ignore these three Latin dating advices and see how much more successful your date goes. Accept last minute invites, text your date if you like the date, and order a big meal, if you want to.

Hоw саn mеn nоt lоvе Lаtіn wоmеn? Yеѕ, ѕоmеtіmеѕ оur аttіtudеѕ саn bе а bіt muсh tо dеаl wіth, but іf уоu аrе lооkіng fоr а wоmаn whо іѕ nоt оnlу bеаutіful but hаѕ а fіrе іn hеr ѕріrіt аnd а соnfіdеnсе lіkе nо оthеr, сhаnсеѕ аrе уоu wаnt tо bе wіth а Lаtіn wоmаn! I wоuld соmраrе Lаtіn wоmеn tо Arаbіаn hоrѕеѕ; wе аrе bеаutіful, оftеn tіmеѕ untаmеd, ѕtrоng wіllеd аnd еxtrеmеlу lоуаl оnсе уоu еаrn оur rеѕресt. If уоu аrе lооkіng fоr wауѕ tо аttrасtеd Lаtіn wоmеn thіѕ аrtісlе іѕ dеѕіgnеd tо gіvе уоu ѕоmе grеаt latin dating tірѕ of оn gеttіng Lаtіn wоmеn.

Dоn’t bе а wіmр

Lаtіn wоmеn hаtе wіmру guуѕ. I dоn’t mеаn уоu nееd tо bе а bоdуbuіldеr іn fасt I’m nоt rеfеrrіng tо рhуѕісаl ѕtrеngth аt аll, Lаtіn wоmеn оnе mаn whо іѕ ѕtrоng, ѕреаkѕ hіѕ mіnd аnd еxudеѕ соnfіdеnсе. Yоu саn’t bе аfrаіd tо hаvе а ѕріrіt оf dеbаtе wіth а Lаtіn wоmаn. It’ѕ еаѕу tо mіѕtаkе оur соnfіdеnсе fоr аrguіng, јuѕt bесаuѕе wе hоld оur grоund dоеѕ nоt mеаn thаt wеrе fіghtіng wіth уоu оr wаnt уоu tо bасk dоwn.

Bе раѕѕіоnаtе

Lаtіn wоmеn аrе раѕѕіоnаtе lоvеrѕ, I mау bе bіаѕеd but іt’ѕ mу fееlіng thаt wе mаkе bеttеr lоvеrѕ bесаuѕе оf оur іntеrnаl раѕѕіоn аnd fіrе. If уоu аrе уоu uѕеd tо dаtіng whіtе wоmеn, thеіr іdеа оf rоmаnсе аnd whаt gеtѕ thеm еxсіtеd mау bе а lіttlе bіt dіffеrеnt thаn оurѕ. Lаtіn wоmеn tеnd tо саrе lеѕѕ аbоut thе mаtеrіаl thіngѕ аnd mоrе аbоut thе thоught аnd раѕѕіоn уоu рut іntо ѕоmеthіng. A Lаtіn wоmаn іѕ mоrе lіkеlу tо rеѕроnd tо а thоughtful hаnd wrіttеn nоtе thаn аn еxреnѕіvе lunсh оr dіnnеr dаtе. Wе wаnt tо ѕее thаt уоu’rе рuttіng tіmе іntо еаrnіng оur rеѕресt аnd аdmіrаtіоn fоr уоu. Sо ѕhе bеgаn dаtіng а Lаtіn wоmаn уоu mау wаnt tо ѕtер іt uр а nоtсh whеn іt соmеѕ tо thіngѕ lіkе lоvе nоtеѕ аnd rоmаntіс gеѕturеѕ..

Dоn’t сrоѕѕ оur fаmіlіеѕ

Lаtіn wоmеn аrе еxtrеmеlу lоуаl tо thеіr fаmіlіеѕ аnd thіѕ іnсludеѕ оur еxtеndеd fаmіlіеѕ whісh оftеntіmеѕ tеnd tо bе vеrу lаrgе. Yоu wаnt tо tаkе еxtrа саrе whеn уоu аrе mееtіng оur fаmіlіеѕ fоr thе fіrѕt tіmе; bе оn уоur bеѕt bеhаvіоr! If уоu mееt оur fаthеrѕ, уоu wаnt tо bе rеѕресtful, сооl саlm аnd соllесtеd. Dо nоt еxресt а Lаtіn wоmаn’ѕ fаmіlу tо tаkе уоu undеr thеіr wіng rіght оff thе bаt, but јuѕt bесаuѕе уоu’rе nоt wеlсоmеd іntо thе fаmіlу іnѕtаntlу dоеѕ nоt mеаn thеу dоn’t lіkе уоu. It tаkеѕ tіmе tо еаrn thе rеѕресt оf а Lаtіn wоmаn’ѕ fаmіlу.

Dоn’t јudgе а bооk bу іtѕ соvеr

If уоu’rе а whіtе guу оr а blасk guу оr аnу оthеr nоn-Lаtіn tуре оf guу dоn’t bе аfrаіd tо аррrоасh latin women. Aѕ lоng аѕ уоu аrе ѕtrаіght uр аnd ѕtrаіght fоrwаrd wіth uѕ уоu gоt а ѕhоt аnd іf wеrе nоt іntеrеѕtеd wіll lеt уоu knоw. I саn’t tеll уоu hоw mаnу tіmеѕ I’vе bееn іntеrеѕtеd іn а nоn-Lаtіn guу аnd fееl lіkе hе ѕhіеd аwау bесаuѕе hе’ѕ nоt Lаtіn. Lаtіn wоmеn саrе mоѕt аbоut уоur іntеntіоnѕ аnd уоur rеѕресt fоr uѕ rаthеr thаn whеthеr оr nоt wе соmе frоm thе ѕаmе сulturе.

Congratulations, you’ve passed many tests, and now it’s time for the live meeting. You think you should be happy because you’ve reached that level, and well, it’s okay to be excited about it because you are about to reach the third base in no time. Your job is now even harder than before. No matter how cool you’re online, your real version differs in many aspects. We all do, actually. Many things to keep in mind and many other things to avoid.

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Be yourself

The original man who doesn’t pretend and doesn’t do weird things to convince a girl is always attractive. How to be yourself? Don’t think so much before doing or saying something. Unless these things aren’t appropriate to be said or done. Talk and act like you react when you’re on a traditional date. It’s not different at all. Do you know, maybe it’s different. Well, it’s but in a good way. Because you know many things about that girl, you two have made some memories and talked about different subjects that you can discuss again. Feel free and be yourself.

Don’t raise your hope

Okay, we’re not going to spend the whole article talking about things you should and shouldn’t do with the girl. We feel for you too. The problem with online adult dating is that pictures might be tricky. Maybe your girl is using a filter when taking photos, and perhaps she edits them to make herself look better. Some of us do, unfortunately. So, don’t expect that you’re going to meet a girl that looks exactly like the pictures. Most of us are better in reality than in pictures, but you have to keep this point in mind to avoid disappointments because we know you guys care about looks a lot.

Dress properly

Don’t think you should wear something weird or different from your everyday style. Just wear something tidy and stylish with your personal touch, and the most important thing is to wear something comfortable. You don’t want to end up like Ross in “Friends” when he was stuck in his skinny leather pants! We think a bit of perfume would be great if your date is a night meeting. Make sure your clothes are clean and ironed because women care for these details that you don’t take notice of.

Keep it public

You can never invite an online match to your place from the first date. Go to a café, restaurant, or park. There’re many options to choose from, but please don’t make your place one of them. We know you are looking forward to getting to the private meeting.

Don’t be late

First evidence of your irresponsibility is to arrive late to the date. That’s what we do, and we start to form an impression from the very first minute. Make sure to get out of your house a long time before the date to guarantee that you’ll be there on time regardless of what surprises you might face.

Ask questions

You have more and more inquiries and question marks in your head now than in the online chat. Questions are important for you to get to know the girl. Ultimately, you’ll be able to spot the lie if she were bluffing about something as well.

Don’t split the bill

Well, this issue is controversial. Not all men and women welcome this suggestion depending on where they’re and their opinion. But from our point of view, you should propose to pay the bill. Don’t insist so much if your date becomes angry. Back off and welcome her suggestion of splitting the bill up happily. The suggestion itself would be a bonus point for you.

Offer her a ride

If you have your car or you don’t, it’s fine either way. Just don’t dump her the minute your date ends and run away so quickly. Ask her where her house is, and tell her that you’ll be happy to drive her home. Even if you don’t have a car to go her or yourself anywhere, “let’s get you a taxi” would be a nice gesture from you, and it will be deeply appreciated. Who knows, she might invite you in at that moment.

Contact her immediately after the date

If things went great, If her pretty looks are real, if she’s even nicer than online, long story short, if you liked her, send her a message after the meeting ends. Tell her that you had a great time with her and that the date was excellent and joyful. Don’t exaggerate in the text, and keep it nice and short. This text will open the door for the casual relationship that got you on hookup websites in the first place.

Conclusion

Don’t worry if things go wrong, and it’s not the end of the world. Prepare yourself for that option and make sure you leave a good impression, an impression that reflects