Looking to improve your sexual health? The answer could lie in the sex toys that you use!
How Can Sex Toys Improve Your Sexual Health?
Biologically, human beings are still sexually stimulated in the same manner that we were thousands of years ago. However, over the last 20 years in particular, the way that we use sex toys and advances in technology has completely changed the industry. That’s not to say that the it isn’t still controversial. After all, our sexual health is still something that we aren’t really talking about.
Magnus Sullivan, the author of How Masturbation is the Key to Better Sex and Healthier Living argues that men often feel a stigma associated with using sex toys to masturbate and pointed out sex toys don’t just help people understand their own bodies, but it helps them to become better lovers too.
Improve Your Sexual Health With Regular Orgasms
For both men and women, regular orgasms are a great way to:
Boost the immune system
Post orgasmic pain thresholds are higher that pre orgasm
Help you live longer
Relieve menstrual cramps and helps to regulate the menstrual cycle
Greater sense of wellbeing and overall happiness
Frequent orgasms can help to lose weight
Further to this, using sex toys can also improve sexual health and overall well being by assisting with certain medical conditions, but the answer to the sexual issues you may be experiencing may be the unused sex toy lying in your bedroom drawer. Obviously, medical help should always be sought in the event of any worrying events. However, Samantha Evans, a former nurse and founder of Jo Divine, argues that challenging the way that health professionals think about using vibrators for certain gynecological conditions and sexual dysfunctions instead of medication, can improve lives for the better.
Vaginismus
For example:
Vaginismus is a condition that causes involuntary tightening of the muscles around the vagina whenever penetration is attempted. This can happen during intercourse, during masturbation or even when inserting a tampon.
Dilators
The treatment can involve the use of which are inserted into the vagina and used alongside pelvic floor exercises. The dilators gradually increase in size until the female regains full control of the PC muscles. However, this type of treatment isn’t for everyone. Michelle Lyons, the Women’s Health Physiotherapist, recommends the use of a instead of a dilator because she believes that the association of a vibrator with pleasure will help them overcome vaginismus through pleasurable feelings, rather than learning to tolerate something in their vagina.
Ben Wa Balls, as they are known to some are a great way to tone the pelvic floor muscles. As we know, the muscles can become weakened as females age or after childbirth. However, these balls can be inserted for just 15 minutes a day and as the pelvic floor naturally clenches around the balls, this helps to strengthen the muscles and relieve issues such as stress incontinence, prevent prolapse and also increases the intensity of orgasm.
Men – Improve Your Sexual Health Using Sex Toys?
For men, the sexual health benefits are just as effective. Erectile dysfunction is associated with feelings of distress, anxiety, depression and a reduced quality of life. For those who struggle with premature ejaculation or weak erections, cock rings work by gently trapping blood into the genitals leaving them engorged. Because the blood is unable travel back into the body, the wearer benefits from a harder, stronger and longer lasting erection – up to four times that of normal erection. Wearers can also use penis pumps to improve the strength of an erection.
Other sex toys that are inserted into the anus such as a prostate massager enable the wearer to enjoy a much stronger orgasm, but also help to milk the prostate. Prostate milking increases blood flow to the prostate gland, reduces inflammation of the gland, rids the gland of toxins and helps to prevent prostate cancer.
Handheld penis strokers are ideal for those who struggle with premature ejaculation because they enable users to experiment with techniques that can improve staying power in the bedroom. Fleshlight, a well-known brand of realistic sex toys even offers a handy guide to prolonging male orgasm with their Stamina version of the sleeve.
Pulse Duo
Those who suffer from erectile dysfunction may believe that pills are the only answer. However, it is still possible to enjoy a fulfilling sex life with a partner using a prosthetic penis, or a hollow dildo strap on. Sex toys like the Pulse III from Hot Octopus enable the users to enjoy a hands free orgasm without the need for an erection. The Pulse III Duo works in the same way, but with a vibrating plate to stimulate the clitoris, thus encouraging sexual intimacy between partners where erectile dysfunction is causing a lack of mutual intimacy.
What are Phthalates?
Sex toys are perfectly safe to use, as long as they are used properly. However, sex toy injuries have doubled since 2007 and continue to steadily rise. Furthermore, the sex toy industry is largely unregulated and many toys are untested. The material used for many sex toys contain phthalates which is a dangerous chemical that is used to soften the toy. Researchers believe that this chemical can enter the body through mucus membranes.
Recent studies on rats and mice suggest that exposure to phthalates could cause damage to the reproductive system, infertility, hormone imbalances, diabetes, obesity and even cancer. It is common practice for many sex toy websites to point out the sex toys that are crafted using safe materials, and some avoid products with phthalates altogether.
Can you catch STI’s from Sex Toys?
It is possible to transmit STI’s from sex toy use. Sex toys can pass on STI’s such as chlamydia, syphilis, herpes and bacterial vaginosis. Penetrative sex toys that enter the body can also pass on Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C and HIV. Particularly if there are cuts or abrasions around the genitals. Therefore, it’s really important that sex toys are never shared, washed between uses and that they are covered with fresh condoms during shared play.
To ensure that the sex toy isn’t damaged, it is important that users only use sex toy cleaners and lubricants that are compatible with the material used to create the product.
Congratulations, you’ve passed many tests, and now it’s time for the live meeting. You think you should be happy because you’ve reached that level, and well, it’s okay to be excited about it because you are about to reach the third base in no time. Your job is now even harder than before. No matter how cool you’re online, your real version differs in many aspects. We all do, actually. Many things to keep in mind and many other things to avoid.
The original man who doesn’t pretend and doesn’t do weird things to convince a girl is always attractive. How to be yourself? Don’t think so much before doing or saying something. Unless these things aren’t appropriate to be said or done. Talk and act like you react when you’re on a traditional date. It’s not different at all. Do you know, maybe it’s different. Well, it’s but in a good way. Because you know many things about that girl, you two have made some memories and talked about different subjects that you can discuss again. Feel free and be yourself.
Don’t raise your hope
Okay, we’re not going to spend the whole article talking about things you should and shouldn’t do with the girl. We feel for you too. The problem with online adult dating is that pictures might be tricky. Maybe your girl is using a filter when taking photos, and perhaps she edits them to make herself look better. Some of us do, unfortunately. So, don’t expect that you’re going to meet a girl that looks exactly like the pictures. Most of us are better in reality than in pictures, but you have to keep this point in mind to avoid disappointments because we know you guys care about looks a lot.
Dress properly
Don’t think you should wear something weird or different from your everyday style. Just wear something tidy and stylish with your personal touch, and the most important thing is to wear something comfortable. You don’t want to end up like Ross in “Friends” when he was stuck in his skinny leather pants! We think a bit of perfume would be great if your date is a night meeting. Make sure your clothes are clean and ironed because women care for these details that you don’t take notice of.
Keep it public
You can never invite an online match to your place from the first date. Go to a café, restaurant, or park. There’re many options to choose from, but please don’t make your place one of them. We know you are looking forward to getting to the private meeting.
Don’t be late
First evidence of your irresponsibility is to arrive late to the date. That’s what we do, and we start to form an impression from the very first minute. Make sure to get out of your house a long time before the date to guarantee that you’ll be there on time regardless of what surprises you might face.
Ask questions
You have more and more inquiries and question marks in your head now than in the online chat. Questions are important for you to get to know the girl. Ultimately, you’ll be able to spot the lie if she were bluffing about something as well.
Don’t split the bill
Well, this issue is controversial. Not all men and women welcome this suggestion depending on where they’re and their opinion. But from our point of view, you should propose to pay the bill. Don’t insist so much if your date becomes angry. Back off and welcome her suggestion of splitting the bill up happily. The suggestion itself would be a bonus point for you.
Offer her a ride
If you have your car or you don’t, it’s fine either way. Just don’t dump her the minute your date ends and run away so quickly. Ask her where her house is, and tell her that you’ll be happy to drive her home. Even if you don’t have a car to go her or yourself anywhere, “let’s get you a taxi” would be a nice gesture from you, and it will be deeply appreciated. Who knows, she might invite you in at that moment.
Contact her immediately after the date
If things went great, If her pretty looks are real, if she’s even nicer than online, long story short, if you liked her, send her a message after the meeting ends. Tell her that you had a great time with her and that the date was excellent and joyful. Don’t exaggerate in the text, and keep it nice and short. This text will open the door for the casual relationship that got you on hookup websites in the first place.
Conclusion
Don’t worry if things go wrong, and it’s not the end of the world. Prepare yourself for that option and make sure you leave a good impression, an impression that reflects
For those new to sex toys, the length and girth of a large vibrator can be a little intimidating. However, when used correctly, a large vibrator is the perfect sex toy to bring you to a fulfilling orgasm. With many vibrators on the sextoys.co.uk website ranging from 6 inches to a whopping 12 inch, the thicker girth and longer length ensure that they caress all your inner hotspots so nothing is left untouched.
Different kinds of large vibrator available
With so many different sizes and styles of large vibrator to choose from, you’re forgiven for feeling a little confused. Each vibrator offers something very different, and trying to figure out what the different functions actually do can be a little tricky. To make things a little easier for you, we’ve broken down the different styles of large vibrator and highlighted some of the great features each supersized vibe offers.
Large Rabbit Vibrators like the Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator have a large, thick shaft for great internal stimulation and attached clitoral stimulator for external pleasure. With every thrust of the rabbit vibrator, the soft nodules which form the ‘rabbit ears’ nestle the clitoris and titillate with powerful vibration. With lots of large rabbit vibrators available at Sextoys.co.uk, take some time to browse through their collection, and check out the different textures and vibration modes each one has to offer.
Large Classic Vibrators like the SI Novelties 8 inch Vibrating Dildo with Balls are a traditional phallic shaped vibrator, but often with a textured shaft and multi-speed vibrations. The tapered tip of the classic vibrator allows for easy insertion whilst the soft textures stimulate you internally, or externally if rubbed against the clitoris.
Large Realistic Vibrators like the Loving Joy Super Gybrator 9 Inch Realistic Vibrator are crafted to look just like a real penis and usually have the same raised glans and veiny texture. Due to the large testicles, or the suction base that is normally located on a large realistic vibrator, these sex toys are perfect for adding some extra excitement to harness play or pegging.
Large G Spot Vibrators like the Satisfyer Pro G Spot Rabbit have a precision curve which seeks out the sensitive G Spot and teases with powerful pulsations and throbbing vibrations. Usually with a thick pleasure nub located at the tip of the vibrator, large G Spot vibes offer direct stimulation to your inner hotspots and always achieves a powerful orgasm.
Large Wand Vibrators like the Doxy Wand Massager offer soothing strokes, powerful orgasms and when required, a deep tissue massage too. Ideal for sport or pleasure, a large wand massager offers direct and powerful stimulation wherever you require it. During masturbation, placing a wand vibrator directly onto the clitoris delivers powerful and intense exhilaration.
How to use a large vibrator
Because large vibrators are usually longer and thicker, they require a greater degree of care during use. Particularly, if being used by a beginner or for anal play. To use a large vibrator, you need plenty of compatible lubricant and lots of patience. If you aren’t sure which lubrication is compatible with your large vibrator, read the product information and check whether any advice is offered. If you still aren’t sure, contact their customer care team.
Apply lashing of lubricant to the large vibrator, and a little more for good measure and open your legs wide. If the vibrator has a suction base, sticking it to a smooth surface and squatting over the large vibrator gives greater control over penetration and elongates your body, so insertion is easier.
Ease the vibrator slowly and carefully into the vagina, making sure that you give your body plenty of time to adjust. Some people prefer to thrust the vibrator in and out, whilst others enjoy twisting the shaft to experience the stimulating textures. However, you want to enjoy your large vibrator, experimentation and lots of patience are the key to unlocking the incredible pleasures that a large dildo has to offer.
Will a large vibrator ruin my sex life?
A large vibrator does not stretch the human body permanently. We have a natural elasticity in our bodies which enables us to retain our natural body shape within a couple of days after using a large vibrator. After all, women go through childbirth and still manage to enjoy a healthy sex life afterwards.
