1When you are dating, you will experience a sudden flood of words of wisdom and advice regarding dating. Everyone will give their dating advice to you, ranging from your aunt to your mum. They will tell you what things you must say or how you must behave.

Although, they may think that they know everything about dating, they could in fact be harming your relationships and dating scene, rather than doing any good. Therefore, it is best to consider whatever they say and then do whatever it feels right to you. Have a look at these 3 Latin dating advices that you must definitely ignore.

1. DO NOT ACCEPT LAST MINUTE INVITE TO A DATE

Your friends would have advised you that you should not accept last minute invite to a date, because it indicates to the other person that you are easily available and easy to get. However, this is a wrong advice.

Rather, you should do what you feel is right. If you feel that you should accept the invitation and go on the date, then you should do the same. And, if you are busy somewhere or do not feel like going, then you should not go.

Just because your friend has advised you not to accept last minute date invites is not a good enough reason to cancel your date. After all, if you do not go, you can miss out on a potentially memorable date. Just go for it and do not over-analyze the situation.

2. DO NOT CALL FOR 3 DAYS

Many parents or friends advise that you should not call your date until 72 hours have lapsed. However, this is a wrong advice that has no relevance now. Today, people do not wait for 3 days to contact their date, as evidenced by a survey carried out by LoveGeist that indicates that 78 per cent of men reach contact their date before 72 hours.

If you really enjoyed the date and are interested in the other person, then you should definitely call them up or text them telling the same that you enjoyed the date. If the other person also feels the same, that is, if they also enjoyed the date and are interested in you, then they will definitely reply to your message.

3. DO NOT ORDER A LARGE MEAL

A lot of times people advice that you should not order a large meal, when you are on a date. They say that you should know how to behave and what to eat on a date. Nevertheless, you should not listen to their advice and order whatever you feel like eating.

Just like you should not disclose everything about yourself on your first date, similarly you must not act differently. You must be yourself. After all, your date should like you as you are and not the fake you.

Ignore these three Latin dating advices and see how much more successful your date goes. Accept last minute invites, text your date if you like the date, and order a big meal, if you want to.

As a writer who isn’t afraid to tackle any sexual health related topic, I found that many of the sexual health issues surrounding men are based on concerns about their erections. Namely, whether their erections are big enough, strong enough and if they are lasting long enough. As men get older, erectile dysfunction or weakened erections are a genuine concern.

What is erectile dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction is sometimes referred to as impotence and is characterised by an inability to achieve an erection, or an erection which is hard enough for sexual intercourse. This can happen if the man in question has been drinking, anxious or is suffering from any kind of stress. Furthermore, erectile dysfunction can affect anyone regardless of age, but it is more common in men who are older.

What causes impotence?

The causes of impotence can be related to a number of different factors, both emotionally or physically. The more common causes of erectile dysfunction may be:

• Cancer treatment
• Injury
• Kidney disease
• High blood pressure
• Diabetes
• Performance anxiety
• Psychological issues such as anxiety or depression
• Stress
• Smoking

The occasional mishap is usually nothing to worry about. After all, people have been saying for centuries that the penis has a mind of its own! However, if your erection issues continue it is important to get your overall health checked out by your GP.

Natural remedies for erectile dysfunction

Thankfully, there are a number of remedies available to help cure impotence, some of which are available from the pharmacist. These erectile dysfunction cures range from pills, surgery and acupuncture. However, for those who suffer from other health conditions, medical cures for importance aren’t always a suitable option.

Some of the natural cures for impotence are very different to the other options because they focus on healing the body, rather than medicating the penis. For example, simple lifestyle changes such as losing weight, stopping smoking or drinking less alcohol can help to cure impotence, whilst eating food which increase certain vitamin and mineral levels can also help to improve erections and reduce impotence.

Another popular remedy for impotence is a penis pump, or dick pump as it is sometimes known. A penis pump works by using vacuum to draw blood into the penis, thus creating an erection. With the use of a penis ring afterwards, the erection is strengthened and lasts much longer.

There are two types of cock pump available, and air pump which is often pumped by hand, or a hydro pump, which uses water to create the vacuum.

How is a water pump different to an air pump?

According to Bathmate, the manufacturer of the worlds best-selling water based penis pumps, the use of water instead of air to create an erection minimises compression. This helps to create an even distribution of pressure, so the experience is safer and more comfortable for the user.

Furthermore, an air pump requires the use of two hands. For those with limited mobility, or who tire easily, this can be problematic. A water penis pump is designed for use with one hand and can be used in the bath or shower so it is ideal for those who have disabilities, weakened limbs or any additional needs.

Safe levels of pumping are also an important factor for those using penis pumps. Traditional air pumps usually have a gauge on the side of the chamber which enables the user to keep an eye on the air pressure. Over-pumping the pumps can create too much pressure which can cause damage to the sensitive tissues within the penis. By drawing upon personal experience, the user must regularly check the gauge to ensure that they are within the safe levels of pressure required for their personal parameters, and ensure that they stick to these. This can be tricky for those who lack air pump experience. Therefore, high levels of concentration are required.

The Bathmate Hydro pumps are designed to work differently to air pumps in that the design of the pump actually helps to limit the maximum air pressure, so that it’s safer and more comfortable to use. If you find that the pressure is a little too firm for your liking, a valve that you control with one finger immediately releases the pressure in the pump. For those with limited mobility, additional needs or a slight weakness in their hands, this is a great feature because it is much safer and easier to operate.

Furthermore, the warm water in a hydro pump helps to prepare the penis for stretching and soothes the tissues as you pump, thus enabling the user to enjoy a more comfortable experience. Traditional air pumps lack this feature and users are often required to manually prepare the penis for pumping using warm towels. For those who are pumping before sexual intercourse, this is a timely procedure which some users find too time consuming. By investing in a hydro pump, this enables the user to pump safely without taking precious time away from the bedroom. Also, those pumping daily to increase the size of their penis can easily incorporate a hydro pump into their morning bath/shower routine without worrying about the time constraints.

Long term results from penis pumping

Penis pumps draw blood into the penis to create an erection, but did you know that penis pumps can help to increase the size of your penis?

The rumours are true. Regular use of a penis pump can help to permanently increase the size of your penis. Experts recommend that using a pump once a day for at least six months for permanent gains, and continuing to maintain a pumping regime to ensure that results last. Regular hydro pump users have reported gains of up to 1 inch in length and 0.5 inches in girth!

Where to buy a penis pump?

All penis pumps are good for creating erections. However, it is clear that some are more superior than others. If you aren’t sure about the type of penis pump you want to use, Bathmate offer a 60 day no quibble discount on all their hydro pump range. For more information, speak to one of the Bathmate penis pump advisors or take a look at their unrivalled range of water-based penis pumps.

Lots of insertable length, soft & pliable silicone, and a bright daisy yellow: all things that are hard to find in the current vibrator market, and things that I was happy to see with the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine Vibrator. Now I’m not saying this vibe is perfect, but for my own uses, it fills an otherwise scarce niche. I own plenty of strong g-spot vibrators with stiff bodies and strong motors placed *right* at the tip to give that strong stimulation. The Sunshine vibrator is different. It’s soft silicone (I’d say about a 12A Shore, so very similar to the Blush Novelties Avant dildos), and the vibrations are concentrated in the base, near a nub that could theoretically stimulate the clitoris. And the color! It’s beautiful and sticks out from the sea of pinks are purples my vibrator drawers are overflowing with, making me instinctively reach for this vibe. But, looks are insignificant if a vibrator doesn’t work so let’s get into the review.

Specs: 

• 8.9 inches total length (6 inches insertable)

• 1.7 inches max diameter (at the clitoral nub that can be inserted)

• Silicone and ABS plastic

• Easy to hold loop base (NOT anal-safe)

• 6 steady speeds

• 6 vibration patterns

• Waterproof

• Rechargeable

• Affordable ($50 at pretty much every retailer)

• Forward, backward, and power buttons for easy navigation

• Lightweight

Motor:

The motor on this vibrator is decent, not crazy strong or rumbly but decent, especially given the other features that the Sunshine comes with at a $50 price point. It’s not very loud and has some rumble to it, especially at the lower speeds: you can actually see the toy move back and forth on the lowest speed! The 6 speeds start at a super gentle rumble and go up to a decently strong vibration that isn’t too buzzy.

The motor is placed towards the base of the silicone body, meaning that the vibrations feel more subtle in the tip of the toy and more concentrated towards the clitoral nub of sorts (this nub personally will not stimulate my clitoris while using the toy internally). The gentler vibrations works well for me as I don’t love super concentrated vibrations on my a-spot; this isn’t a weak vibrator by any stretch and it’s about as strong as the Blush Novelties Impressions line.

Sometimes on sensitive days, I use this vibe externally, but I almost always switch it out for a wand or pressure-wave toy part-way into my masturbation time: it just isn’t powerful enough to get me off externally most of the time. If you are on the sensitive side of things and want a vibrator that doesn’t feel overwhelming, this may be a great choice for you.

Shape:

The Yummy Sunshine is marketed as a g-spot vibrator, which it’s fine for if you prefer a gentler curve and pressure–not dissimilar to the fingering adjacent shape or the Uberrime uUno–, but personally, the 6 inches of insertable length and forward curve scream a-spotty goodness to me and hell, they do a good job of it. Thrusting this slimmer toy into my a-spot is glorious and the little loop at the bottom makes it pretty easy to hold without getting my hands all lubey (which happens with suction cup or flat bases).

The little ridges along the silicone shaft! For me, they hit that sweet, middle ground of providing stimulation without being too rough or pokey. It’s just enough, and not too much (perhaps you’re noticing a theme with this vibrator).

The clitoral nub at the bottom of the insertable portion is irrelevant to me. It doesn’t stimulate my clit and it’s small enough to just pop inside my vagina if i need a bit of extra length. The loop at the bottom works well for my thin hands but keep in mind that if you have thicker fingers, it may be challenging to loop more than one finger through the hole.

On Satisfyer as a Company:

A lot of other reviewers have talked about how many Satisfyer products appear to be knock-offs of other brands’ products (such as Womanizer, and in the case of this toy and it’s insertable vibe siblings, Fun Factory). I don’t like this, but I also understand that Fun Factory and Womanizer are expensive brands. I wanted to review this product for folx like myself who may be on a limited budget and unable to afford the previously mentioned premium brands but still want something body-safe and effective. Do a quick Google search on Satisyer copying toy designs and you’ll find more literature on the topic.

Bottom Line:

Overall, the Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine Vibrator is an affordable quality product for gentler stimulation of the a-spot, g-spot, or clitoris that comes in a cute package with a nice set of features. Buy on Amazon